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My Interview with Eric Maisel, author of Ten Zen Seconds.

May 29, 2007 · 1 Comment

Here it is!  
My interview with Eric Maisel, godfather of creativity training.  Enjoy! ;-) 
NOTE:  The URL for the book isn't showing up properly in the following text.  Simply go to this shortened link 
to order the book through Amazon.com:  http://tinyurl.com/33p4eh
MTF:  Welcome, Eric!  And thanks for joining us on your blog tour.
 
EM:  It’s my pleasure, Maya.
 
MTF:  Eric, in your new book, Ten Zen Seconds, you offer a 
very simple but powerful technique for reducing stress, 
getting yourself centered, and reminding yourself about 
how you want to live your life.  
 
I love your idea of “dropping a useful thought into a deep breath”!  
You use a deep breath, five seconds on the inhale and five seconds 
on the exhale, paired with a thought that sort of points you in 
the right direction for dealing with whatever you are facing.
 
Where did this idea come from? 
 
EM: It comes from two primary sources, cognitive and positive psychology 
from the West and breath awareness and mindfulness techniques from the East. 
I’d been working with creative and performing artists for more than twenty 
years as a therapist and creativity coach and wanted to find a quick, simple 
technique that would help them deal with the challenges they regularly 
face—resistance to creating, performance anxiety, negative self-talk about a 
lack of talent or a lack of connections, stress over a boring day job or 
competing in the art marketplace, and so on.
 
MTF:  Eric, how would you describe TZS to someone who has never worked with 
affirmations or breath control?
 
EM: Taking a deep breath is not mysterious and thinking a thought is not 
mysterious, and marrying the two is child’s play. The basic idea of Ten Zen 
Seconds is that you can “drop” certain useful thoughts into ten-second-long 
deep breaths and in so doing provide yourself with a simple tool and a 
complete system for centering and reducing stress.
Because I have a background in both Western and Eastern ideas, it began to 
dawn on me that deep breathing, which is one of the best ways to reduce 
stress and alter thinking, could be used as a cognitive tool if I found just 
the right phrases to accompany the deep breathing. This started me on a hunt 
for the most effective phrases that I could find.

MTF:  Eric, you call these thought/breath combos “incantations”—
how did you decide to use this particular term?
 
EM: Well, Maya, it was a tough call whether to use a word from the 
world of magic, which “incantation” is, where it stands for a “verbal charm” 
meant to produce certain results. I very much liked this idea  
and so ended up going with the word, despite the fact that it 
comes from the “woo-woo world.” Maybe there was 
just a touch of irony at play there, too.
 
MTF:  When you started to select your incantations, how 
did you go about finding the ones that would resonate with people?  
 
EM: First, I tried to figure out what are the most important 
tasks that we face as human beings, then I came up with 
what I hoped were resonant phrases, each of which needed 
to fit well into a deep breath, then, most importantly—which 
moved this from the theoretical to the empirical—I tested 
the phrases out on hundreds of folks who agreed to use them 
and report back on their experiences. That was great fun and 
eye-opening!
 
MTF:  Oh, we like things that are eye-opening here. ;-)  And I 
love the fact that we are free to tweak the incantations and 
come up with the phrases that work for us, depending on our
circumstances. 
 
EM: Of course!  People used these phrases to center themselves 
before a dental appointment or surgery, to get ready to have a 
difficult conversation with a teenage child, to bring joy back to 
their performing career, to carve out time for creative work in 
an over-busy day—in hundreds of ways that I couldn’t have 
anticipated. I think that’s what makes the book rich and special: that, as 
useful as the method and the incantations are, hearing from real people 
about how they’ve used them “seals the deal.” I’m not much of a fan of 
self-help books that come entirely from the author’s head; this one has been 
tested in the crucible of reality.
 
MTF: So, you tested and came up with a list of a dozen incantations.  
Tell us about them.  
 
EM: Naturally each incantation is explained in 
detail in the book and there are lots of personal reports, so 
readers get a good sense of how different people interpret and 
make use of the incantations. Here are the twelve (the parentheses 
show how the phrase gets “divided up” between the inhale and the exhale:
 
  1. (I am completely) (stopping)
  2. (I expect) (nothing)
  3. (I am) (doing my work)
  4. (I trust) (my resources)
  5. (I feel) (supported)
  6. (I embrace) (this moment)
  7. (I am free) (of the past)
  8. (I make) (my meaning)
  9.  (I am open) (to joy)
10. (I am equal) (to this challenge)
11. (I am) (taking action)
12. (I return) (with strength)
 
A small note: the third incantation functions differently from the other 
eleven, in that you name something specific each time you use it, for 
example “I am writing my novel” or “I am paying the bills.” This helps you 
bring mindful awareness to each of your activities throughout the day.
 
MTF:  It’s a very creative way to find your own best message! 
What are some of the ways you and others are using TZS?  
 
EM: Maya, folks are coming up with all kinds of special uses. One 
that I especially like is the idea of “book-ending” a period of work, say 
your morning writing stint or painting stint, by using “I am completely 
stopping” to ready yourself, center yourself, and stop your mind chatter, 
and then using “I return with strength” when you’re done so that you return 
to “the rest of life” with energy and power. Usually we aren’t this mindful 
in demarcating our activities—and life feels very different when we do.
 
My web master Ron Wheatley has also designed a 
slide show at the Ten Zen Seconds site (http://www.tenzenseconds.com)  that 
you can use to learn and experience the incantations. The slides that name 
the twelve incantations are beautiful images provided by the painter Ruth 
Yasharpour and each slide stays in place for ten seconds. So you can attune 
your breathing to the slide and really practice the method. The slide show 
is available at http://www.tenzenseconds.com/test_photo_slide.html
 
MTF:  Eric, many people are searching for ways to pop into mindfulness 
mode throughout the day.  They’re not necessarily interested in 
meditation, but they do want to learn a quick, simple technique for 
centering during times of stress and chaos.  How does Ten Zen Seconds 
support us in shifting gears during the day?
 
EM: So much of it is attitudinal. You can either feel pushed and pulled by 
everything—or not. You can get a grip on your own mind and not make “big 
deals” out of small matters—or you can turn them into dramas and crises. 
Stress has to do not with the doing of things but with the thoughts we are 
holding as we do those things: the thought, for instance, that we have fifty 
more things to do, rather than just being present with the thing in front of 
you, peacefully doing it, without a thought as to those other fifty things. 
The incantations support this attitudinal shift by helping you completely 
stop, by helping you trust yourself, rather than worry about what’s not 
going to work or what’s not going to turn out well, and so on. This is all 
about the art of “getting out of your own way”—of making things cognitively 
easier and better.
 
 
MTF: How can people learn more about Ten Zen Seconds?
 
EM: The book is the best resource. You can get it at Amazon by visiting:
 
http://www.amazon.com/Ten-Zen-Seconds-Eric-Maisel/dp/1402208537/sr=1-25/qid=1167239458/ref=sr_1_25/102-5337867-2282549?ie=UTF8&s=books
 
Or you can ask for it at your local bookstore. The Ten Zen Seconds website 
is also an excellent resource: in addition to the slide show that I 
mentioned, there is a bulletin board where folks can chat, audio interviews 
that I’ve done discussing the Ten Zen Second techniques, and more. It’s also 
quite a gorgeous site, so you may want to visit it just for the aesthetic 
experience! I would also recommend that folks check out my main site, 
http://www.ericmaisel.com, especially if they’re interested in creativity 
coaching or the artist’s life.
 
MTF: Eric, in addition to training others to be more creative, you’re 
always coming up with new projects for yourself!  What are you up 
to these days?
 
EM:  Plenty! I have a new book out called Creativity for Life, which is roughly 
my fifteenth book in the creativity field and which people seem to like a 
lot. I also have a third new book out, in addition to Ten Zen Seconds and 
Creativity for Life, called Everyday You, which is a beautiful coffee table 
book about maintaining daily mindfulness. I’m working on two books for 2008, 
one called A Writer’s Space and a second called Creative Recovery, about 
using your innate creativity to help in recovering from addiction.
 
And I’m keep up with the many other things I do: my monthly column for Art 
Calendar Magazine, my regular segment for Art of the Song Creativity Radio, 
the trainings that I offer in creativity coaching, and my work with 
individual clients.
 
MTF:  Whew!  Sounds like you have plenty of opportunities to practice the
“I am completely stopping” incantation. ;-)  
 
EM: I am happily busy! But my main focus for the year is on 
getting the word out about Ten Zen Seconds, because I really believe that 
it’s something special. 
 
So I thank you for having me here today!
 
MTF:  Thank YOU, Eric!  We really appreciate your wonderful work.  
Best of luck on your new projects!  
 
EM:  Thanks, Maya.  It’s been a pleasure to talk with you.
 
 

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Eric Maisel Interview Right Here TOMORROW!

May 28, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Tomorrow–May 29th–I will be interviewing creativity trainer/author Eric Maisel RIGHT HERE on this blog! 

Eric has written over a dozen books, and we’ll be talking about his latest one, Ten Zen Seconds.   It offers a simple technique for pairing a deep breath with a guiding thought to get you centered.   He keeps things simple and his approach is VERY easy to incorporate into your life every day.  Good stuff! 

Watch for that TOMORROW!  ;-)

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WRITERS WANTED: Share your story!

May 25, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Just another post about the previous project:  please spread the word! 

For a new website, we’re looking for first person, friendly, folksy stories from real people about how they are “circulating” in their community in their own way.  Up to 250 words.  Must be willing to share your name, city/state/country, and URL or business or organization name if that is applicable.  Extra points if you have a great photo to share with us at a later date!

 For now, simply send your story and your info to me at Maya@MassageYourMind.com and put “Circulation” in the subject line.  We’re hoping to hear from people around the world.  Tell your friends! 

Now, get out there and CIRCULATE. ;-)

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Circulate Your Story! Here’s a chance to share how you circulate in your community…up to 250 words…

May 25, 2007 · Leave a Comment

My husband and I are working on a fun new project. 

Part of it involves collecting stories from people around the world on the theme of “circulation”…

I’m not talking about BLOOD.  I am referring to your preferred way of getting out into your community, flowing through it and doing good work–in whatever way that shows up for you. 

We’re looking for folksy, first-person stories about who you are and what you do.  Up to 250 words.  We’ll include your name, city/state/country, and your URL or company name if that is applicable.  Extra points for those willing to add a photo of themselves CIRCULATING in their community! 

I think it will be fun, inspiring and a great way to connect people to the whole idea of circulation

You game? ;-)  

If so, simply send your piece, your name, city/state/country, URL and business/organization name  to me at Maya@MassageYourMind.com and be sure to put “Circulation” in the subject line.  Please DO NOT send photos at this time–but do let me know in the message if you happen to have one! ;-)

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Meditation Research at U of Pennsylvania: Just Do It

May 11, 2007 · 1 Comment

This seems to be the month for publishing results of recent studies on the value of meditation.

Here’s one that suggests that even if the act of meditation doesn’t seem too relaxing to you, you ought to do it ANYWAY.  Meditating for even a few minutes a day may help you develop attention skills that will help in other areas of your life, resulting in less stress for you. 

Hey…whatever works! ;-)

Read it here:

Meditate…to Concentrate: Penn Researchers Demonstrate Improved Attention With Mindfulness Training
May 09, 2007

PHILADELPHIA — Researchers at the University of Pennsylvania say that practicing even small doses of daily meditation may improve focus and performance.

Meditation, according to Penn neuroscientist Amishi Jha and Michael Baime, director of Penn’s Stress Management Program, is an active and effortful process that literally changes the way the brain works.  Their study is the first to examine how meditation may modify the three subcomponents of attention, including the ability to prioritize and manage tasks and goals, the ability to voluntarily focus on specific information and the ability to stay alert to the environment.

In the Penn study, subjects were split into two categories.  Those new to meditation, or “mindfulness training,” took part in an eight-week course that included up to 30 minutes of daily meditation.  The second group was more experienced with meditation and attended an intensive full-time, one-month retreat.

Researchers found that even for those new to the practice, meditation enhanced performance and the ability to focus attention.  Performance-based measures of cognitive function demonstrated improvements in a matter of weeks.  The study, to be published in the journal Cognitive, Affective, & Behavioral Neuroscience, suggests a new, non-medical means for improving focus and cognitive ability among disparate populations and has implications for workplace performance and learning.

Participants performed tasks at a computer that measured response speeds and accuracy.  At the outset, retreat participants who were experienced in meditation demonstrated better executive functioning skills, the cognitive ability to voluntarily focus, manage tasks and prioritize goals.  Upon completion of the eight-week training, participants new to meditation had greater improvement in their ability to quickly and accurately move and focus attention, a process known as “orienting.”  After the one-month intensive retreat, participants also improved their ability to keep attention “at the ready.”

The results suggest that meditation, even as little as 30 minutes daily, may improve attention and focus for those with heavy demands on their time.  While practicing meditation may itself may not be relaxing or restful, the attention-performance improvements that come with practice may paradoxically allow us to be more relaxed.

The research was supported by the National Institutes of Health and the Penn Stress Management Program.

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So, for those of you who don’t like meditation or think you’re not “good” at it, consider trying it anyway. Don’t gauge your progress based on how you feel during your meditation session.  Instead, do it regularly for a few weeks and see if it helps you concentrate better on your tasks.  If your work gets done with less effort, you might be a bit more relaxed, no?

And for those of you who refuse to try meditation–or have given up on it–there’s good news!  You can still practice paying attention in all kinds of different ways–all while doing what you do ANYWAY and keeping your eyes wide open! 

To learn more about my Awakening Awareness course,  visit:

http://www.Real-WorldMindfulness.com/awakening-awareness.htm

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Celebrate World Laughter Day May 6th!

May 5, 2007 · Leave a Comment

My response to controversy is generally to simply laugh.  Aren’t we humans silly?  We need to SEE THIS and recognize that there is plenty of room for different views as long as we can be compassionate–and LAUGH!

Fortunately, I’m not the only one who thinks so.  There are laughter clubs all over the world in which people gather regularly to simply LAUGH.  And tomorrow–May 6th–happens to be World Laughter Day, with laughter events in cities all around the world. 

To learn more–and find a laugh fest near you!–visit www.laughteryoga.org

Have a Ha Ha Day! ;-)

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Mindfulness Controversy: Is There Room For Creativity?

May 5, 2007 · 1 Comment

Oh, wow.  I guess I stepped on a hornet’s nest once again.  It’s funny how prickly some people can be when it comes to being open about your mindfulness practice.

In yesterday’s Friday Mind Massage, I wrote a bit at the end about how I received a message from a subscriber that said:

“Maya, why all this talk about creativity?  I thought we were going to focus on being mindful!”

And I explained that my motto for my work is this:  “Teaching eyes-wide-open ways to get calm, clear and creative.”

I went on to say that I was spending a little time in my ezine lately focusing on the creativity part instead of the getting calm and clear part. 

Then, I went on to say that I see mindfulness and creativity as going hand in hand.  After all, becoming aware of all that is going on around and within you is a great way to be open to your possibilities and stir up creativity. 

Okay, and then I went a step further.  I said:

You can’t be creative
without being mindful, but
you CAN be mindful without
being creative.
I see a bit too
much of that in-the-
moment awareness for its
own sake.  Why not take
the next step and play with
mindfulness as a tool
for opening our eyes to our
own creativity and passion?  

Think of it as engaged
mindfulness
.

Watching your breath is
powerful–watching your
responses as a way to see
what you have to offer to
the world–now THAT’s hot.

I invite you to choose to use
your awareness as a way to
improve the WORLD–not just
yourself.”
 

And then I invited people to let me know what they thought about that. Well, I received a number of unsubscribes, including one from a prominent mindfulness teacher in my home state of Oregon.  In addition, I received a number of emails similar to this one:

“I can’t believe what you said about mindfulness ‘for its own sake’ as though we are selfish for just keeping our awareness to ourselves.  Mindfulness isn’t supposed to be FOR anything–it’s just what it is!  By making it some sort of method for becoming more creative or more ‘engaged’ you are turning it into yet another way to improve ourselves that requires action instead of just letting us BE more mindful.  I don’t agree with you at all–you know nothing about Buddhism.”

Well.  I can see this point.  But honestly, I’m not following the traditional Buddhist perspective here of meditation and silent awareness–and if I WERE following it, I could certainly point to the role of the bodhisattva as one who is enlightened and helping everyone else before nudging into nirvana….. Isn’t that engaged mindfulness

I’ll also point out that I’ve been a student of Buddhism for 30 years and have a tremendous amount of respect for its tenets…but I’ve chosen to be a bit CREATIVE about applying them because I worked with so many clients who felt completely HOPELESS about becoming mindful through the traditional sit-and-breathe approach.  

So sue me!  ;-)    

So, my point has always been that we are too rigid about what we “should” and “should not” do in terms of practicing mindfulness.  This is detrimental.  It is counterproductive.  It is frankly arrogant to say that there is ONE way to get mindful and you’d better do it the right way or it just doesn’t count. 

In addition, there is the crazy notion that being mindful for its own sake is the point.  Well, that’s certainly worth doing–I mean, that’s where we all start, right?  By becoming more mindful, we become more open, compassionate and accepting.  This affects our way of being in the world, which will likely affect our relationships with others and set in motion a trend toward more loving kindness in our lives.

This is all good stuff. But to say that we should not take it further and use our awareness to see our own possibilities for giving back to others?  Sorry, this won’t sound too compassionate (but neither did that email above) but this just seems a bit too self-centered for me.  SELF.  Wait.  Aren’t we “supposed” to be stepping away from that whole awareness of self?  Wow.  So many rules, it’s just too hard to do it all “right” all the time, huh? 

Precisely my point.

Lose the rules.  YES, meditate if you like.  But more importantly, practice mindfulness by being OPEN, seeing the world around and within you, and YES, USE your awareness to engage in the world in a deeper, more compassionate, more creative way. 

Don’t keep it all to yourself.  SHARE IT.  SEND IT OUT there and connect with others and do it in your OWN way.  There’s nothing to be gained by following the same structure when there is so much potential for greater awareness when we play with the rules and dance with the possibilities. 

Sorry to lose you, Jerry

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